Callous

adjective

Gifted with great fortitude to bear the evils afflicting another.

    When Zeno was told that one of his enemies was no more he was
    observed to be deeply moved. "What!" said one of his disciples, "you
    weep at the death of an enemy?" "Ah, 'tis true," replied the great
    Stoic; "but you should see me smile at the death of a friend."


—Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary